Why are people such compulsive liars? A girl I know on answers, has been a dental hygenist, a lead guitar player, a teacher, a mechanic, a vet tech, and a translator. She has done none of these what so ever, what drives people to do this and how can I deal in real life. I work with her in RL and she told our boss that she had lost her husband in Iraq. A) she's never been married B) he's still alive.
What can I do when I see all this "sympathy" for her, yet I know it's not real? Should I mention it to the boss, or is it a betrayal to her?
Compulsive liars?
well first of all how can her non-husband who she never had be alive if he doesnt exist??? but anyway... make sure you are positive about everything, confront her, ask her why she is being so lame and then causually bring it up with your boss, like talk about the war in iraq, he is sure to mention her non-hubby, and tell him she was never married and her bf (i assume thats who you were talking about) is still alive and kicking.
Reply:She sounds like a multi-personality troll to me.
Ignore her. Don't tell her boss that'd be wrong.
Reply:I think your boss should be able to figure it out for himself but a few hints might not hurt. I was married to a compulsive liar a long time ago and it's amazing how they go on. They become believers themselves. They eventually trip themselves up with their stories.
Reply:LOL, lieing gets people attention and it makes them seem better then what they are.
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